I am going to attempt to try and create, as honestly as my memory and writing capabilities allow, what my life was like leading up to my brain haemorrhage. I am not jotting this down for some kind of warming egotistical nostalgic reasons that only I and maybe my family would find interesting but because like I mentioned in my first post , one of the reasons I agreed to do this was to try and document and make some kind of sense about how an exploding blood vessel in my head changed my life and the lives of those around me. I am later hoping to bring the story up to date as the Welfare Reform Bill or more specifically the transition of the old Incapacity Benefit to the new Employment Support Allowance starts to bite and how it as effected me. I am hoping that the narration will stay apolitical, not leaning to any side of the political spectrum, left, centre or right because I am convinced that we,disabled and sick people,as individuals mean nothing to either side. We are statistics on a spreadsheet, a burden that costs the treasury increasing billions of pounds a year and this expense must be reduced at any cost………and if I am really honest, a part of me tends to agree with this thinking or maybe I am becoming conditioned to feel ” guilty” about the benefit that I currently recieve. I don’t know.
The last Government initiated the Welfare Reform Bill which was then taken up whole heartedly by the current Coalition Government and more; so we could say that it was a joint party initiative. I knew that the reforms would effect me in some way; and if I’m really honest, I was in agreement myself that the benefit system needed an overhaul, but I went along thinking that genuine cases of disability , that people like me were “safe”. I thought that the “bad back” malingerers would be the ones to be hit, the ones caught playing golf or football or riding a bike or digging the garden; these would be the unfortunates who had to worry. I thought that I was one of the “safe” ones; like I thought before my illness that I was safe. That the bad luck of a heart attack or cancer or a car smash or a disability or a break in or a loss would never happen to me. I now know that my feeling of safeness is fundamentally flawed. There is no “safe”, there is never a “safe”.
If I was reading this, I know for a fact I’d be thinking, “ oh here we go again, yet another sob story, another load of soul searching rubbish, another skiver who doesn’t want to get off his arse and get a job ”, and I would move on to something else and I don’t blame you if you do. I get sick of reading or listening to this stuff too. However, the blood vessel that burst in my head, supplied the oxygenated blood, the food, to my right optical cortex, so when it burst it flooded that area with blood and cut off any further supply to the brain tissue. A bleed inside the brain is devastating to brain tissue, it‘s like sand paper. Brain cells, deprived of a blood supply, will die in the matter of minutes, never to recover. Never to recover! I was left with half vision, yes I really do mean half vision, not the PC expression, partially sighted, I mean literal Half Vision and then there are the daily epileptic incidents as a result of the brain damage and more about that in later posts too and also the stone breaking headaches and the effects of having to take a handful of medication to keep the fits at bay. Anyhow, I have been deemed fit for work and I really do intend to try and find a job. So this blog may well end up as an interesting chronicle of one mans attempt to play by the rules and heaven help the Employer who takes me on; even if I get as far as an interview; I’m going to try and document it all. I read recently, and how accurate these statistics are I can’t be sure, that over 30 people have died from their illnesses of those that have been classified as fit for work. I suppose 30 odd is a negligible figure, probably well within Government guidelines. I can just picture the Whitehall mandarins sitting round an oval table coming to the conclusion that 30 deaths make no difference to the overall objectives and pass the biscuits please. Remember that I was a Civil Servant…I know how it works. I wonder whether I’ll be another statistic. Who knows. I pray I won’t be. So, if you can cope with my style of jotting, it should be an interesting journey for us all. Lee